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Understanding Autism

Autism, or Autism Spectrum Disorder (ASD), is a lifelong neurodevelopmental difference that affects how a person experiences the world, communicates, processes information and relates to others. Autism is not an illness or something that needs to be “fixed.” Rather, it reflects the natural diversity of human minds — often referred to as neurodiversity.

What Does “On the Spectrum” Mean?

Autism is described as a spectrum because no two autistic people are the same. Each person has a unique combination of strengths, challenges, needs and abilities. Some people may need significant daily support, while others live very independent lives.

It is important to remember that these differences are not deficits. Many autistic people have exceptional strengths such as creativity, honesty, loyalty, analytical thinking, problem-solving abilities, and deep knowledge in areas of interest.

Autism Across the Lifespan

Autism is often identified in childhood, but some people are not diagnosed until adolescence or adulthood. Late diagnosis can bring both relief and grief: relief in finally understanding oneself, and grief for years spent feeling “different” or misunderstood.

Autistic people experience higher rates of anxiety, depression and stress, particularly when their needs are unrecognised or unsupported. Sensory overload, social pressure, constant masking (hiding autistic traits to fit in), and repeated experiences of exclusion can take a significant toll on mental wellbeing.

Counselling benefits

Autistic adults may seek counselling for a range of reasons, including anxiety, depression, burnout, relationship challenges, identity questions, or workplace stress. These challenges often arise not from autism itself, but from living in a world that is not designed with neurodivergent people in mind.

Mental Health and Autism

Counselling can provide a safe, non-judgemental space where autistic individuals can:

  • Explore their identity and self-understanding
  • Develop coping strategies for anxiety and sensory overwhelm
  • Improve communication and relationships
  • Heal from experiences of bullying, trauma or burnout
  • Build self-acceptance and confidence